Saturday, March 13, 2010

The Women in my Life

This post has probably been inspired by the fact that I got tired of seeing all those horror pictures people have been putting on FB and really wanted to get my mind off them.

..... the women in my life!

I don't see myself as a 'womaniser' but people have told me more than once that I have the eyes of one. I believe people are just funny with this assumption because the people that have said this have never seen me talking to a woman or 'toasting'(did I ever toast the ones I went out with?) one. Before you start thinking or having the wrong ideas, I have only one woman in my life right and she's definitely going to be the last and only woman in my life.

The first woman was in secondary school. I was definitely too young for a relationship so it was really easy to let go.

The second was in-between after secondary and university. We somehow never went out but we remained good friends.Several years later, she claims she was really dying for me but I never had the 'liver' to ask her out.

Third was in the university. I remember vividly seeing her for the first time in LIN 121 class. I practically chased her for a year before things went down between us. Somehow along the heart, she broke my heart. 2010- She says I never totally forgave her and wonder what it will be like right now if we were still together. My cousin and roommate for three years believes till today I never got over her.

Fourth, still in the university. We both knew from the beginning it was a risky venture but we still went ahead. A lot of people felt we were from two different worlds. Two years later, one of us had to be strong, I broke her heart for the benefit of both of us.

2007, I made my final choice!

.... the problem is, I still relate with these other women very well but sometimes I really wish I don't ... to avoid trouble for all of us.

Is it really safe putting up this post?


rayo said...

its nt advisable to lurk around ur past my dear man. if dey wont free u, free urslf from them. btw, how many tyms do i have to tell u that? lol

Naijalines said...

Let the past be in the past. Walk past it, thats why it's called the past.

Greetings to the lovely one.

Nutty Jennifer said... have been busy!!! lol

but seriously I'd advise you stop relating with the other women 'very well'...a once in a while 'hi and hello' is cool....but 'very well?' not advisable....

Nice Post