Friday, January 9, 2009

Can This Be Real?

At first, it seemed like a joke when a friend of mine (female) came to meet me and told me she wanted HER to marry her brother who is in the United States. The guy in question was actually looking for a wife and had told his family members to scout for one for him. I thought it was a joke until I started seeing the moves the female friend of mine was making to woo HER for her brother. The various activities and stress of our service year obviously didn’t give my female friend enough time and oppourtunity to continue her quest.

HER-She is beautiful, smart, endowed, natural and a kind of girl you would want to spend time with (I maximized that privilege whenever we visited ‘our’ amala joint to eat every Wednesday). I remember how we became friends. The first few times we talked, HER was very rude. Later we became good friends (probably because she couldn’t resist the musco charm-I’m sure HER will crucify me for this!).

HER seems to be in some kind of confusion right now.

She met this guy on Facebook. She thought it was a joke but it seems (seems?) to be very real now. I never really believed in cyber love but from what HER has told me so far, this guy wants to marry her. He works in one of the multinational companies in Nigeria and he is going to be out of the country for the next six years. As at yesterday, he gave HER an ultimatum till the first week of February to make up her so that he can tell his parents to start making the necessary arrangements. HER seems to be very lucky but she already has a steady relationship.

HER seems to be very confused. She needs all the blogville advice she can get!


Anonymous said...

Hmmmm This is very interesting. HER should follow her heart because at the end of the day she will have only herself to live with. I dont know sha. The US is not really something to look forward to per se. Its all work and pay the freaking bills. She needs to figure out what she wants for her life and then decide after that. Goodluck to HER.
How are you Musco, long time no see..err...write... long time no write.

aloted said...

Her is definitely confused..

facebook love sha....someone u haven't met? people can be anything they want to be online...

pls tell Her to tread carefully


wait she is in a relationship but someone on FB wants to marry her?

Okay, I must be confused. Why is she interested in the FB guy? What does he do for her? And who is it trying to court her for her brother? Is that brother the FB guy?

FineBoy Agbero said...
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rayo said...

whats d lure this other guy has, d fact that he works in a multi-nat or lives in jand? nd how do u fall in love ova Fb when u have a steady rel? how steady is that rel really? sorry but i dont see her as lucky, jeez this guy is already issuin ultimatums nd all nd one thin i firmly believe is no mata how much u think u kno someone over the net, d reality is always different nd just how vast that difference is may just shock her. personally, i'd say she should get her head out of the clouds nd see things the way they probably really are. this thing stinks. o.k the truth is i cant get past the part where she is even considerin him wyl in a steady relationship. jeez. aight Rayo, just shut up!

Anonymous said...

damn right, she confused. am confused.

teebay said...

" Later we became good friends (probably because she couldn’t resist the musco charm"

hmm bros muscoco!

wetin man fit yarn, she hooked so wat else she lookin for?
sure she hasnt event met d guy sef.

wat if hes like shrek? really!


baba musco, time neva reach for an update? na wa oh!

Buttercup said...

im with temite..HER shud just follow her heart and do whatever she feels will make her happy..

btw, u've been tagged, check my blog for details

Spicytee said...

Not everything that glitters is gold..And a devil she knew is better than an angel is doesn't know..
Let her pray about it and follow her heart..May God direct her well.

Naijalines said...

If she has never met him, why are they contemplating marriage?!!!
Am I missing something here?

It's been a while I've been here. Sho wa?